One of the 243 portraits · MLMMM
The Negotiator
I show up when there's something worth the trade.
You treat most things as a fair exchange.
You engage when there is real value in it and hold a firm line without raising your voice. Organized enough to close, curious enough to consider the other side's actual terms.
Strategic · Composed · Fair
The five together
You engage when there is something to gain, keep a firm line without heat, stay organised enough to close, and treat every relationship as a reasonable exchange.
The Negotiator's result is low on Agreeableness and in the middle on Extraversion, Conscientiousness, Emotional Stability and Openness. Each band is wide on purpose: a score near a boundary can fall either side on a retake, and the portrait describes the pattern, not a precise point.
About 1 in 100 people
1.0% of a reference sample of 596,850 adults share this combination. The Negotiator is a common combination.
Bands are relative to a general adult reference sample. Honesty-Humility is measured in your Snapshot and appears in your report; it is not part of the portrait.
What The Negotiator might recognize
- You'll walk away from a deal calmly the moment the terms stop making sense.
- You keep your composure in a disagreement that would rattle most people in the room.
A question worth keeping
What would it look like to give something away generously, just once, without weighing what you get for it?
Six lenses
The Negotiator in relationships, at work, and under stress.
In relationships
What you bring, what you need, where it strains.
These six lenses on The Negotiator come with the membership.
Written for this exact combination, alongside 90 trait pages, a strengths constellation and a growth plan.
Read them in the membershipOne band away
Move a single dimension and the portrait changes. These are the ten neighbours of The Negotiator.
- Extraversion lowThe Sentinel
- Extraversion highThe Campaigner
- Agreeableness mediumThe Chameleon
- Agreeableness highThe Reliable Friend
- Conscientiousness lowThe Free Agent
- Conscientiousness highThe Fixer
- Emotional Stability lowThe Contrarian
- Emotional Stability highThe Referee
- Openness lowThe Trader
- Openness highThe Inspector
The traits behind The Negotiator
A portrait is a pattern across five measured dimensions. Every trait is reported as a percentile against the reference sample; the three bands and the portrait name exist to make the result easier to talk about, and the percentile is always shown alongside. Each dimension has its own page explaining what it means, what the research says it predicts, and how it can change.
- Balanced band, 30th to 70th percentileWhat is Extraversion?
How much you enjoy being around people, talking, and doing lively things, and how much energy that gives you.
- Quiet band, below the 30th percentileWhat is Agreeableness?
How kind, trusting, and cooperative you tend to be with other people, and how much you put getting along ahead of getting your way.
- Balanced band, 30th to 70th percentileWhat is Conscientiousness?
How organised, careful, and reliable you are about getting things done and keeping your promises.
- Balanced band, 30th to 70th percentileWhat is Emotional Stability?
How calm and even you usually feel, and how quickly you bounce back when something upsets you.
- Balanced band, 30th to 70th percentileWhat is Openness?
How much you enjoy new ideas, art, imagination, and experiences that are different from what you already know.
The Snapshot also measures Honesty-Humility, which appears in your report but is not part of the portrait code. How much you tell the truth, play fair, want only your fair share, and avoid showing off, even when you could get away with more.
Questions about The Negotiator
- What is the Negotiator personality?
- The Negotiator is one of the 243 Wellington portraits: a pattern of bands across the five Big Five dimensions rather than a fixed type. I show up when there's something worth the trade. You engage when there is something to gain, keep a firm line without heat, stay organised enough to close, and treat every relationship as a reasonable exchange.
- How common is The Negotiator?
- 1.0% of a reference sample of 596,850 adults share this combination. The Negotiator is a common combination among the 243 portraits in the reference sample, and the share will move as the norming sample grows.
- How do I find out if I am The Negotiator?
- Take the free Wellington Snapshot: 60 questions, about 7 minutes. You answer all the questions first, then you sign in with an email so your answers are saved and your results can be shown. There is no card. Your free results name your portrait and show your five dimensions.
- Is The Negotiator a personality type?
- Not in the sense of a box you are sorted into. Wellington measures continuous traits and reports each as a percentile against a reference sample. The Negotiator names the combination of bands your scores fall in, and a score near a band boundary can land on either side on a retake. Wellington describes ordinary variation in personality; it is not a diagnosis and is not designed for hiring. Read more about types and traits
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