One of the 243 portraits · LHLMM
The Neighbor
I am the one who feeds the cat and asks nothing back.
You are the neighbor nobody has to ask twice.
You notice small things, an unmowed lawn, a forgotten birthday, and quietly take care of them yourself. Your temper stays even, your curiosity stays mild, and you never want a fuss made over any of it.
Considerate · Unassuming · Steady
The five together
Warm in small numbers, easy about rules and mostly untroubled, you are the person next door who feeds the cat, remembers the birthday, and never wants a fuss.
The Neighbor's result is high on Agreeableness, low on Extraversion and Conscientiousness and in the middle on Emotional Stability and Openness. Each band is wide on purpose: a score near a boundary can fall either side on a retake, and the portrait describes the pattern, not a precise point.
About 2 in 1,000 people
0.20% of a reference sample of 596,850 adults share this combination. The Neighbor is an uncommon combination.
Bands are relative to a general adult reference sample. Honesty-Humility is measured in your Snapshot and appears in your report; it is not part of the portrait.
What The Neighbor might recognize
- You remember birthdays and small favors that other people forget within the week.
- You will try something new if a friend recommends it, though you rarely go looking for it yourself.
A question worth keeping
What would you let yourself ask for, if asking did not feel like making a fuss?
Six lenses
The Neighbor in relationships, at work, and under stress.
In relationships
What you bring, what you need, where it strains.
These six lenses on The Neighbor come with the membership.
Written for this exact combination, alongside 90 trait pages, a strengths constellation and a growth plan.
Read them in the membershipOne band away
Move a single dimension and the portrait changes. These are the ten neighbours of The Neighbor.
- Extraversion mediumThe Helper
- Extraversion highThe Welcomer
- Agreeableness lowThe Individualist
- Agreeableness mediumThe Wayfarer
- Conscientiousness mediumThe Quiet Friend
- Conscientiousness highThe Steward
- Emotional Stability lowThe Rescuer
- Emotional Stability highThe Gentle Soul
- Openness lowThe Good Soul
- Openness highThe Nomad
The traits behind The Neighbor
A portrait is a pattern across five measured dimensions. Every trait is reported as a percentile against the reference sample; the three bands and the portrait name exist to make the result easier to talk about, and the percentile is always shown alongside. Each dimension has its own page explaining what it means, what the research says it predicts, and how it can change.
- Quiet band, below the 30th percentileWhat is Extraversion?
How much you enjoy being around people, talking, and doing lively things, and how much energy that gives you.
- High band, above the 70th percentileWhat is Agreeableness?
How kind, trusting, and cooperative you tend to be with other people, and how much you put getting along ahead of getting your way.
- Quiet band, below the 30th percentileWhat is Conscientiousness?
How organised, careful, and reliable you are about getting things done and keeping your promises.
- Balanced band, 30th to 70th percentileWhat is Emotional Stability?
How calm and even you usually feel, and how quickly you bounce back when something upsets you.
- Balanced band, 30th to 70th percentileWhat is Openness?
How much you enjoy new ideas, art, imagination, and experiences that are different from what you already know.
The Snapshot also measures Honesty-Humility, which appears in your report but is not part of the portrait code. How much you tell the truth, play fair, want only your fair share, and avoid showing off, even when you could get away with more.
Questions about The Neighbor
- What is the Neighbor personality?
- The Neighbor is one of the 243 Wellington portraits: a pattern of bands across the five Big Five dimensions rather than a fixed type. I am the one who feeds the cat and asks nothing back. Warm in small numbers, easy about rules and mostly untroubled, you are the person next door who feeds the cat, remembers the birthday, and never wants a fuss.
- How common is The Neighbor?
- 0.20% of a reference sample of 596,850 adults share this combination. The Neighbor is an uncommon combination among the 243 portraits in the reference sample, and the share will move as the norming sample grows.
- How do I find out if I am The Neighbor?
- Take the free Wellington Snapshot: 60 questions, about 7 minutes. You answer all the questions first, then you sign in with an email so your answers are saved and your results can be shown. There is no card. Your free results name your portrait and show your five dimensions.
- Is The Neighbor a personality type?
- Not in the sense of a box you are sorted into. Wellington measures continuous traits and reports each as a percentile against a reference sample. The Neighbor names the combination of bands your scores fall in, and a score near a band boundary can land on either side on a retake. Wellington describes ordinary variation in personality; it is not a diagnosis and is not designed for hiring. Read more about types and traits
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